In Step one we learned the power of thought. How we think is a direct reflection of how we feel.Step Two in this series is the power of "Respect".
You cannot love anyone unless you first respect them. The first person you need to respect is yourself. To begin to gain self-respect, ask yourself "What do I like about myself and what areas of improvement do I need to make" We all have to answer to the "man (or woman) in the mirror" and once we can face that person, then everything else becomes easier.

“~This above all; to thine own self be true~
-William Shakespeare”

To gain respect for others, even those you may dislike, ask yourself, "What qualities does this person possess that can enrich my life and those around me?" Even your worst enemy has something you can find to respect about them, if nothing else, their fortitude in remaining at an impasse with you.
Treating your chosen partner with the same respect you'd treat yourself or your boss or those you admire. After all he/she is the most important person in your life. Before making a decision that might impact on either one of you, first determine would you want to be treated in the same manner. If you give love and respect you will receive love and respect.

About the author: Having searched for 42 years before finding the other 1/2 of her dividedsoul, Dr. Goodhead has since become one of the WWW most sought after authorities on internet relationships. Under her real persona she has over 27 articles in print or on the WWW.